One of the mistakes we often do is we don’t treat people well who are behind us.
You will see your behaviour towards a successful person is always different.
I remember sending a message to such a person who was ahead of me and I got a denial. After a long time, I sent him another message with a desperateness that how badly I need his help. He denied it too.
I’m not supposed to have any problem with that.
But the thing is if I would be in a better situation than him, he would come after me.
This is what I could not like. Every human deserves equal respect irrespective of their material possession. Just because of the hope of getting something out of someone a whole lot of people behave differently. And these are not bad people, the best people in the world and that is why I have the problem.
The best of the best people only come out when they are with someone of authority.
Does that mean, I have also disrespected people who cold call me?
Well, I can’t remember anyone sending a message to me with a genuine request and I gave a bad reaction. I always feel gratitude. That could be because I get fewer emails.
Sometimes it feels like the old version of me was a lot more effective in this world. Who was strict, talk less, used to shout, laugh and understand as well but now I am more understanding and trying to understand their situations, which I am not supposed to think about.
In the one corner of my heart, I just love what I have become and in the other part, I just want my old version to take over me again.
I am not complaining about this but reminding myself that don’t be that person who doesn’t give enough respect to others and second is prove to the people that you are worthy.
Cheers,
Swapnesh